Questions that can help bring the most out of your reading
- © Vanda Costa
- Aug 12, 2015
- 3 min read
Part 5 of 6
This week’s question: what types of questions can I ask to get the most out of the reading?
Spiritual guidance readings are perfect to help you discover the options that are available to you with respect to a certain situation, how to get to the bottom of a re-occurring problem/issue in your life by identifying possible triggers, personal dispositions, habits, traits, etc., that could be blocking your growth.
Spiritual guidance readings will not tell you when/if that person will come back to you - this is a free-will situation and the cards cannot tell you what this person has chosen to do with their life. Similarly, these readings won’t help you if you’ve decided that you don’t want to help yourself either - they cannot do the work for you; for instance, if you’re asking about whether you should get a new job, but if you’re not willing to do anything to get a job, then it’s pretty obvious that whatever guidance comes through isn’t going to be of use to you.
Guidance is what I offer through Spirit, only you can carry out what you feel is right for you, it is after all, your life, and ultimately you must decide what’s best for you.

Remember that these readings serve to empower and guide you and your decisions and/or actions. While a general reading can help you to hone in on the life area that most needs your attention, chances are that you’ll know exactly what life area needs looking at, and this is where the clearer you are with your intention/question, the clearer your reading will be - if you’re a little unsure about your focus, that will come through in the reading.
Now, let’s take a look at some of the types of questions that can help you get more out of your reading :
What limiting beliefs do I have surrounding … finances/abundance/love/dream job/success?
What’s causing this emotional challenge/blockage around (situation)?
What are my strengths/limitations with regard to (situation)?
What am I ignoring/not seeing about .... (situation)?
How am I contributing to this challenge/situation?
What is the opportunity for growth within this situation?
What will I gain by remaining where I am (situation)?
What will I gain by moving on from this (situation)?
What are my fears regarding … (situation)?
Where am I holding myself back regarding … (situation)?
What actions can I take to advance my career?
What past issues are affecting my present?
So you see, the best questions are those that relate to you and your own growth and development.
Questions that have a focus, whilst not being too restrictive are the best types to be asking - if you restrict the question too much, then your guidance may be limited, confusing and/or way too general to bring any definitive clarity or direction.
Coming into a reading, one question or life area per reading is best as this will allow the focus to be more directed towards gaining clarity - having said this though, if you ask about your love life and what comes through is related to your career, then it’s your career that most needs your attention at this time. You will also find that these readings bring up many questions of their own - they are, after all for guidance, clarity and direction and are extremely insightful as you will discover.
The goal of the reading is to provide the guidance and clarity that you need so that you can take responsibility for your life and begin to make the changes that will benefit you in all stages of your life beginning with where you are right now.
Are you ready to receive a reading? Visit our readings page to select the reading that you feel most suits your circumstances.
I will be sharing more of these questions over on our Facebook page over the coming weeks, please head on over there to see what else you could be asking - who knows, perhaps you’ll find something that resonates with your current circumstances..
If you have any questions about this blog post, or any of the previous posts, or would like more information, don't hesitate to contact me either via our Contact page or via email.
Blessings,
Vanda x
Come back next Wednesday for Part 6: A final note about spiritual guidance readings…
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